Advocacy Awareness
Melina B is an employee at The Arc of Midland. She makes the office much more fun, and we love seeing her each day. Melina is authoring the blog, and “spilling the tea” about all sorts of things while sharing her perspective! Follow along as Melina posts each Monday for “Mondays with Melina.”
This week, Melina shares what living with Down syndrome means to her, including something she wants others to understand: being independent doesn’t mean you never need help. She talks about her mom, her staff, and the support that helps her get involved in the community and live her own life.
At The Arc of Midland, we know that independence looks different for everyone. It starts with listening to what someone wants for their life and respecting both their abilities and their need for support. Sometimes that means helping someone find services, try something new, or get involved in the community. Other times, it means being there when they ask for help. Behind those everyday opportunities are families, staff, and advocates working together so each person has choices and a say in their own life. Melina’s words remind us why that work matters—and why needing support should never mean being underestimated.
Without further ado…
“It is a genetic condition caused by the presence of a third copy of chromosome 21 and it is a disability. I learn differently but i dont let it make me less Intellect and not affect others who think of me so much. I don't like when people assume I'm independent and I don't need assistance and assume they are independent judging me. But it hurts but I am thankful for my mom. She pushes me to do things in the community. If I didn't listen to her I would miss out alot because of her.and also i do appreciate staffing all they do for me. And I am happy that I am getting services and getting help. So I can live my own life. I know I'm independent, but I still always ask for help. Everybody of this world needs help there's nothing wrong asking for help don't be afraid to say I NEED HELP My mom works at the Arc so she can get services for other people.
Thank you !”